Treasure the Moment

A Dress For a Dance

2011-07-28T08:56:00.000-04:00

My youngest daughter Tess attended the winter dance at her school several months ago and wanted me to sew her a dress to wear. Even though I made my wedding dress about 21 years ago, I have to admit that I haven't sewn clothes too often since the kids were a lot younger. I really enjoy sewing home decorating projects...just not clothes! So needless to say, my first thought was to tell Tess no and instead go dress shopping with her. But her heart was set on it so I did eventually agree. Tess chose the fabric/pattern and I got to work. The dress turned out nicely and Tess was happy. We even made a rosette pin and matching hair accessory!

Thanks for looking,
~Michelle :)

I'm Back!

2011-07-27T11:07:00.004-04:00

Hello all! Gosh, it sure has been a while since I've been here! Lots of changes have taken place in my life over the last several months. As life goes, some of those things have been wonderful and some not so wonderful. Here are a few to mention:

*My husband & I took an awesome trip to Cancun. We enjoyed ourselves very much!

*After that trip, my husband was hospitalized because he had contracted a parasite while in Cancun and the doctors told us he was within hours of his major organs shutting down.

*We moved this past April. I hate moving but love our new place!
*I recently celebrated my 3 YEAR CANCER SURVIVOR BIRTHDAY!! I am feeling quite well. I have my routine appointment with my radiation oncologist next week.

*Our oldest daughter graduated from high school and is preparing to move out on her own. She is our 2nd child to leave the nest.

*I take care of a 6-month old baby boy several days a week and I just LOVE it! (Nope, I don't need any grandbabies right now! I enjoy this little guy very much, then I can give him back to his mommy & daddy!)
*I've still been decorating, sewing, crafting, scrapbooking, etc. I made a few gifts for my sweet sister-in-law's 40th birthday. She loved everything and I was so pleased!

So, that kinda-sorta fills in some of what's been going on in my life! Thanks for looking!

Take care,

~Michelle

Happy 2011 and a return to blogging???

2011-01-05T18:28:00.003-05:00

Wishing everyone a very Happy New Year! The last part of "2010" brought with it numerous changes for my family and me. Some happy, some frustrating but ah, such is life, right? Here are a couple of the major things... Our oldest child moved out and is living on his own now. Additionally, I faced another surgery (a complete hysterectomy) in the month of December but the recovery is going quite well. I'm praising God no cancer was found and life is moving right along again.

I haven't blogged in such a long time so it feels very odd to actually be writing a post! Hope you're all doing well. Have a wonderful week!

Oh My, Where Has the Time Gone?

2010-09-30T23:48:00.003-04:00

I cannot believe I only posted ONCE in September! (Not sure who even reads this little blog anymore :)

At any rate, here's an update...August and September were filled with doctor's appointments, tests, waiting...waiting...waiting. More appointments and tests and waiting. I found out my cancer has not metastasized but I do have degenerative arthritis. OK, so I can definitely live with that!

My camera is no longer in working order so there's a big lack of pictures here. Not currently in the budget to go splurge on a new one. (Boo hoo!) No pictures = boring blog posts.

Anyhow, I'm still around. Just keeping quite busy with life. Hope all is well with everyone!

A Few Wedding Pics :)

2010-09-01T11:29:00.005-04:00

My daughter Taylor and her best friend, Emily. She was such a beautiful bride!
My two lovely daughters, Tess and Taylor. They are growing up so quickly! Taylor will be a senior and Tess will begin her freshmen year in high school.

My advice if you have little ones...savor each moment 'cause the seasons of life change rapidly and before you know it, they are grown!

Just A Little Update

2010-08-23T16:29:00.002-04:00

No pictures today...just an update. Yeah, I know I've been slipping further and further off the blogging radar. I've just had a lot of big, majorly important things going on in life. The routine check-up appointment with my radiation oncologist at the beginning of this month involved several tests as we wondered if my cancer had returned 'cause I've been in constant pain. My right hip, back, shoulders and neck hurt all the time. I had an x-ray first, then a full body bone scan and finally an MRI on my spine. Well, today I received the most wonderful news that I DO NOT HAVE CANCER AGAIN!!!!

My daughter's friend got married this past weekend and I've been super caught up in various projects for that. Everything went well and the wedding was beautiful! It was an outdoor ceremony at the home of the bride's grandparents. The weather cooperated and we all enjoyed a very nice time :)

We've got a lot of celebrating to do around here this week. Tomorrow is my son's birthday and the day after that is my husband's birthday and our 20th wedding anniversary! I feel like a very blessed girl :)

A Survivor Celebration!

2010-07-24T18:15:00.010-04:00

Yesterday marked the 2 year anniversary since I was diagnosed with breast cancer. I mentioned in my last post about having a "survivor" celebration. The party was last night and boy, did we ever have a good time!
I changed a few things on the cupcake tier and reused it for my party.
I wrote out 42 random facts about me to share. (In case you're wondering where the 42 comes in, that's how old I am :)
Party decorations made from coffee filters and cardstock die-cuts. I went to my local scrapbook store and cut the breast cancer ribbons myself using their die-cut machine. You buy the paper (55 cents) and the first 20 cuts are free. Not a bad deal!
My sweet cousin made this adorable "Celebrate Life" banner using her Cricut.
I wasn't expecting any gifts at all but several people brought some very nice things. Not pictured is a Pandora bracelet and pretty charm. The bracelet had to be sized. Some family friends also made a donation to the National Breast Cancer Foundation in my name. Sooo, so sweet!
Our wonderful pastor and his family brought this beautiful rose bush. Now I've just gotta find the perfect spot in my yard to plant it!
I can't begin to tell you how loved and special I felt last night! I am truly blessed to have an amazing family and wonderful friends!

Where I've Been...

2010-07-19T11:46:00.013-04:00

Life has just been plain busy for the last few months! My daughter's best friend is getting married next month and Taylor is, of course, in the wedding. Taylor and I hosted a bridal shower for Emily yesterday. I made the invitations. The theme was "A Perfect Pair".
A soccer cleat to represent the prospective groom and a high heeled pump for the girly-girl bride to be!
I made them a bouquet of roses. We teased Emily and told her we would love her until those roses died...which will be NEVER since they're made out of coffee filters! ha ha Joann's had their vinyl letters clearanced out so I picked one up for 50 cents and personalized the vase with their monogram.

I decided to keep the menu quite simple. Veggie pizza, Chex party mix, chips & salsa, Oreo cookie pudding dessert, a strawberry yogurt pie and cupcakes.
I made a cupcake tier from cardboard boxes wrapped in brown packaging paper and decorated them with ribbons, coffee filter roses and circles/letters cut on my fabulous cousin's Cricut. (I NEEEED a Cricut! ha ha ha) Notice the cute little shoe on the 2nd tower? I found a 12 pack of them at my local Dollar Tree. The cupcake picks were made using a scalloped punch, flat craft sticks (found 'em at Hobby Lobby), glue dots and "A Perfect Pair" squares printed on the computer. (I always try to give credit where credit is due...I originally found the cupcake tier idea from Amanda @ Imperfectly Beautiful...thanks for sharing such a cute idea, Amanda!!!)

My photo board plan went awry, let's just put it that way! The Kodak picture maker machine was down when Taylor went to print some pictures off of the groom through the years. I had pictures of the bride but nothin' of the groom so that idea went out the window! Did I mention this all happened like 2 hours before the shower started? Yeah, so I just had to let it go. It really bugged me whenever I looked at it but oh well...
This is my oldest daughter, Taylor and her best friend, Emily. The girls have been friends since middle school. It doesn't seem possible that Em is getting married!
And last but not least, here is a picture of me and my family that was taken at my brother-in-law's wedding this past Saturday. (Although it appears that way, my son is NOT making bunny ears behind my head! lol)

This Friday marks the 2 year anniversary since I was initially diagnosed with breast cancer. 2 years later I'm still around so I decided to have a "SURVIVOR" party to CELEBRATE LIFE! We're having family and friends over, plenty of food, a fire and music. There's a tent in my backyard waiting for the party! I ended up sending out about 50 some invitations. I'm looking so forward to having the special people in my life celebrate with our family! I'll have to take lots of pictures and share them here on the blog :)

Yeah, I'm still alive!

2010-05-22T21:57:00.004-04:00

Wow, it's been forever and a day since I've been around this blog! Just thought I'd check in and share a picture or two. My oldest daughter went to prom tonight and I got some beautiful pictures :)

Hope everyone is doing well! Life has been busy around here. The weather has warmed up and I've been out working in the yard quite a bit...moving some perennials around, transplanting some things, planting flowers, etc.

Enjoy the rest of your weekend!

Vacation...Good for the Body and Soul!

2010-03-12T09:58:00.003-05:00

Who could possibly be unhappy in a beautiful place like this? I know I wasn't!
We spent A LOT of time down there on that beach :)
This summer we will be celebrating our 20th wedding anniversary. Our trip was a bit of an early celebration :)
Bobby & I enjoyed such an amazing time away! He works very long hours so we don't always get to spend a lot of quality time together. I truly enjoyed 5 days of uninterrupted time with my sweetie!

Thanks for looking!

The Halloween Kitchen...A Scary Place!

2010-03-03T10:26:00.005-05:00

Just thought I'd give you all a little glimpse into the BEFORE of our kitchen when we first moved in a couple of months ago. A bit frightening, huh?! I was surprised by a number of things...

#1. Who chooses orange walls and black cabinets for a kitchen?
#2. Who does such a sloppy painting job and actually leaves it that way?

There were random splotches of paint everywhere...floor, ceiling, hinges/knobs! Maybe it's just a personal pet peeve or whatever, but they had also painted EVERYTHING orange...walls, trim, window sills, outlet covers, light switches...blah! (I'm so thankful the ceiling/doors weren't that orange color!) So, what do you think...do you paint over all of those things or are they white? I prefer white myself.

Stay tuned to see the improvements I've made! Enjoy your day!

Some Kitchen Projects...Revealed!

2010-02-27T21:10:00.003-05:00

I'm baaaack...well, temporarily at least! My husband and I are going on vacation this coming week but I just wanted to share a few projects I got done in the kitchen, as well as the new wall color...dipped chocolate. (Mmmm hmmm, just as yummy looking on the walls as it sounds!) Just wait until I show you the before with its lovely orange walls. The after is like a 1,000% improvement!

There are 2 windows in the kitchen that let in lots and lots of natural sunlight so the room can handle the deep shade of brown. I love animal prints and found a really great sale on leopard decorator fabric at Hobby Lobby for only $2/yard. I decided to make a shade for each window and combine a few fabrics for the valances that I sewed. The other 2 fabrics were originally drapery panels that I decided to cut apart and use. Decorative black trim is glued along the shade edge.

I LOVE how the "E-A-T" letters turned out! Such a quick and easy project to do. The letters were found at Hob-Lob. For the silverware art project,I started with a frame I found at a garage sale years and years and years ago. Then I cut out squares of the coordinating fabrics, laid them out in a way pleasing to my eye and took a picture as a reference point so I'd remember once I got sewing. The silverware is out of the bin at Goodwill. I tied the bows on and hot-glued them right on to the fabric piece.

There are more projects in the kitchen that I do plan to share...but right now I'm pressed for time getting things ready to head out of town.

Thanks for looking!

I'm Wondering....

2010-02-06T11:49:00.002-05:00

Is it just me or are there a lot of you out there experiencing "BLOGGIN' BURNOUT"?????

Maybe I've got a case of THE WINTER BLAHS?! Who knows!

I'm still working on getting boxes of stuff put away. Right now I'm working on transforming my kitchen. When we first moved in, the walls were ORANGE and the cabinets were black...helloooo, trick-or-treat anyone???? Ick! I painted the walls a very warm brown color called dipped chocolate. The cabinets are going to get a fresh coat of black. The theme is 'CAFE'. I've been painting, sewing and working on making a few accessories. I'll share pictures when I'm done...hopefully this week!

An Awesome Report

2010-01-20T16:41:00.002-05:00

I had an appointment this morning to see my breast surgeon after I'd found something suspicious...again. You can only imagine what thoughts were running through my head after my recent journey through breast cancer.

Things like, 'I CAN'T go through this again!' 'This is horrible!' etc. etc. Cancer recurrence is always in the back of your mind after you've been diagnosed once before. I do take medicine on a daily basis to reduce the risk. But I know there are no guarantees.

Now, my breast surgeon is also a breast cancer survivor so she is very understanding and full of compassion. She told me it was wise that I'd made an appointment to see her if I even suspected anything at all was wrong. Turns out what I was feeling is from the effects of all those radiation treatments causing my scars to thicken and become lumpy. The doctor likened it to the skin of an orange.

So, Praise God I am fine and have nothing to worry about! Believe me, I'm one thankful chick...answered prayer rocks!

Just Another Day...

2010-01-18T08:51:00.002-05:00

It never ceases to amaze me how quickly time goes by...January 2010 is *already* more than half over...wow! I am also amazed I haven't posted even one little thing on this blog in almost a month. Honestly, I'm just not sure how I feel about blogging anymore. I used to love sharing things on here (decorating projects, news, etc.) and now...well, now I just don't know. Yeah, I know that sounds pretty lame but just keepin' it real :) I'm still around "Blogland" visiting and sometimes leaving comments, though.

Happy Monday everyone...have a wonderful week!

Unprepared...

2009-12-21T09:15:00.003-05:00

Well, we survived the move and I am now overwhelmed by all the boxes that need to be put away! Here it's only a few days away from Christmas and I'm not a bit prepared. We did put up the Christmas tree yesterday, though. I spent so much time over the last few months making handmade Christmas cards and wouldn't ya know it...we didn't manage to get a family Christmas picture yet this year so I am scrapping the whole idea and waiting until NEXT YEAR to use them...at least I'll be ahead that way!

My uncle passed away yesterday morning from lung cancer and his funeral is on Wednesday. I am very sad for my aunt.

Hoping you all enjoy a very Merry Christmas with your family and friends and wishing you a great start to "2010"!!!

Going Away...

2009-12-01T10:53:00.000-05:00

We are moving in 10 days so I'll be taking a blogging break for a while. Wishing all of you a wonderful holiday season! See ya :)

Gifts Galore

2009-11-20T13:13:00.014-05:00

Our little niece is turning 3 so I decorated a "big girl" bag for her and made a special birthday card. I really enjoy handmade touches when giving gifts. That flower was fun to make...just circles, folds and a few stitches.

We used to live next door to a wonderful family for about 10 years and our kids grew up together. Now their oldest child is getting married tonight! (Can't believe it...I feel so old...I've known this little gal since she was about 5 years old!) I decided to put together a gift basket of Christmas decorations since most young couples starting out don't always have a lot of that type of thing.

Michael's had these cute little chipboard albums in their dollar section so I made an "Our First Christmas" book for the happy couple.
I decorated the blocks after seeing a few different versions online and this is what I came up with.
Here's the front of the gift basket. I also included several other things, as you can obviously see. A bag of scented pinecones, cards, an ornament, gift bags, a Home Interiors decorative music thing/candle holder and some other stuff.
I wrapped the whole basket with tulle and lots of ribbons. I'm very pleased with how everything turned out and I think they'll like it, too!

Oh yeah, and my jury duty service? All done now, thankfully. It's so frustrating how you have to sit at the courthouse and waste your time waiting and waiting and waiting and waiting. I never was seated on a jury (man, was I ever glad!) and the judge excused me today because of the whole wedding deal. What a nice guy, eh? :)

Enjoy your weekend!

Busyness

2009-11-14T09:53:00.003-05:00

Wow...can't believe weeks have passed since my last post! I've been quite busy lately. Although not every detail is worked out yet, our family will more than likely be making a move to a neighboring town soon. Lots of purging, dumping, donating, organizing and packing going on around here! It means a school change for our daughters but they are quite excited :)

I was also picked for jury duty so I've had to call that jury hotline each evening...so far I haven't had to go! One more week to see if I actually have to be at the courthouse; then I'm done. What has your experience with jury duty been like?

Hope y'all have a super weekend! It is supposed to be sunny and unseasonably warm here...so happy about that :)

Got Pictures?

2009-10-30T19:25:00.007-04:00

My 13 year old daughter Tess enjoys taking pictures. She's a very artistic girl and photography seems to be right up her alley! Just thought I'd just share a few of her photos. Have a wonderful weekend!

Not Much of Anything

2009-10-27T10:45:00.002-04:00

Haven't blogged much lately 'cause nothing is really going on! I finished up some things for my daughter Tess' bedroom....her bed, a vanity, duvet cover, etc. There are still a few things left to do so I'll reveal the whole room when I'm done.

Can't believe how quickly October is passing on by, can you?!

A Very Cold Walk For A Super Cause!

2009-10-19T22:36:00.004-04:00

Taylor and me...boy, that hot coffee sure was great right about that time! (Notice my 'SURVIVOR' ribbon :)
I'm sure you're all aware that October is 'Breast Cancer Awareness' month, right? Well, my daughter Taylor & I participated in our first 'Making Strides Against Breast Cancer' walk this past weekend. It was quite cold out (not quite 40 degrees @ 8 a.m.) but we both got all bundled up in our long johns, layered clothes, gloves, hats and put our walking shoes on! The walk was about 3.5 miles long and about 4,000 people turned out to walk in support. There was so much pink there that day! :) It was a really cool experience and I can't wait for next year!

Homecoming Fun

2009-10-10T21:57:00.006-04:00

Tonight was the Homecoming dance so I thought I'd just share a few pictures with you. Taylor went with a group of friends from school. This year we decided to do something different. Instead of getting a limo, going out to eat and spending lots of money, a few kids came over to our house for a good old-fashioned dinner. I fixed a pot roast, mashed potatoes & gravy, corn, biscuits and chocolate cake for dessert. It was a very nice, relaxed, enjoyable time before they left for the dance.

As you can see from the pictures...yes, I have lots of hair now! (Yes indeedy, it's all mine and not a wig! Probably sounds silly but I am very thankful for it!!!!)

MIA

2009-10-09T08:47:00.002-04:00

Ugh, I've been sooo sick this week!!! I'm feeling better so I'll probably be back to posting soon. Hope you all enjoy a nice weekend :)

Some Corners of My Kitchen

2009-09-30T09:40:00.005-04:00

Just thought I'd share a few corners of my kitchen. I was thrilled to recently find the coffee cup rug clearanced out @ $7! It's in front of my sink. Do you remember the Goodwill plate find for 49 cents? It was bare for many months because I couldn't decide if I really wanted to make it a chalkboard plate. I finally decided to use a rub-on letter with our initial. The two smaller black/tan plates were found @ Hobby Lobby for 99 cents each. I just love finding a good decorating bargain, don't you?

Thanks for looking!

Menu Plan Fun

2009-09-28T07:56:00.003-04:00

I spent some time planning meals for this week and grocery shopping for everything over this past weekend. I've got a busy week ahead and there's just something SO nice about knowing I've got my act together in the kitchen! A lot of the recipes I'm using are from the Mom Advice blog I previously mentioned. (I *would* link up to the recipes and get all technical like that but alas, I can be rather computer challenged most of the time!)

Monday: Slow cooker ravioli/tossed salad

Tuesday: Country ham and macaroni casserole/broccoli

Wednesday: Chicken pot pie/mashed potatoes/blueberry muffins

Thursday: Italian veggie and pasta soup/breadsticks

Friday: Eat out

Don't know about your families but around here most of the time I don't really plan a Friday night supper because it seems like everyone's kinda scattered around doing their own thing.

Yesterday we tried out two recipes I *definitely* think are worth mentioning! Our Sunday dinner & dessert was AWESOME! My family grew up eating a lot of "Sunday dinner pot roast" and so did my husband's! (So I don't know if THAT'S why I don't make it except for maybe once or twice every couple of months?!) Anyhow, I used the 'To Die For' pot roast recipe from the Mom Advice blog...wowzers, it truly lives up to its name...we LOVED it...so, so, sooooooo good! (Even our 13 year old non-lovin' beef daughter ate seconds - it was THAT delicious!)

The other recipe I'd like to pass along is one for 'Apple Pie Cake' that Manuela @ The Pleasures of Homemaking posted on her blog last week. It smelled so heavenly coming out of the oven and boy, was it ever yummo! We had vanilla ice cream with it. No calorie counting around here yesterday, that's for sure :)

Hope you have a wonderful week...enjoy each day and be intentional to make some cherished memories...I know I'm going to try!

A Delicious Dinner Recipe

2009-09-24T09:48:00.004-04:00

Not sure about you but sometimes I get just plain stumped when it comes to menu planning. Seems like we eat the same thing over and over and over again. My kids aren't extremely picky eaters but they have their tried-and-true favorites, of course. I decided to try a new recipe I recently found at a blog called Momadvice. (Go there; you'll love it!) http://www.momadvice.com

Here's the recipe we tried out on Monday...

Christina's Salsa Chicken

1 pound chicken, cooked and shredded
1 packet taco seasoning
16-ounce package wide egg noodles
24-ounce jar salsa
16-ounce container sour cream

Boil noodles; drain and return to pot. Add sour cream and salsa. In a separate bowl, mix shredded chicken with taco seasoning. Add to the noodle mixture and cook for 5-7 minutes over medium-high heat. *Makes 8 servings

This dish got great reviews from all!

A Project and Awesome News!

2009-09-21T19:40:00.006-04:00

Take a look at this adorable little eyeglass case I made over for my daughter Tess...whaddya think? Cute, hey?! I'm lovin' how it turned out. Sorry there is no 'before' shot (camera batteries were dead) but picture this...a cat image on the front. Ummmm, let's just say Tess took one look at it and said, 'Mom, not trying to be mean but I SOOOO don't think so!' ha ha (I was quite relieved I had only paid $1.50 for it from good ole' WM!)

So I got out some scrapbook paper, Mod Podge and a few rub-ons to see what I could come up with to please a 13 year old young lady so she'd actually carry her glasses in it. Ah, success...it passed the test...Tess likes it! (Whew!)

Oh, and now for the AWESOME NEWS...I'm tellin' ya, it's SOOOO wonderful! Remember last week when I had to see my oncologist? Well, my bloodwork came back all fine and the chest x-ray was great....I don't have to return to the oncologist for SIX MONTHS!!!!! Wow, is that just THEE best news or what? I was SO thrilled and SO relieved...God is so good!

I'm feeling great and people have been telling me how healthy and good I look, considering all I have been through this last year. (Don't mean that in a vain way - just that I'm much better after being so sick.) The only thing I've gotta take care of at this point is to see my family doctor regarding some heart palpatations I've been having. Not overly concerned about it; just something that needs to be checked on.

I've actually had not one but two haircuts since my hair has grown back, which just seems incredible considering I was mostly bald last March! One of these days real soon I'll have one of my girls take a nice picture of me and I'll share it on here.

Hope everyone is doing well!

*This post is linked up to "Creative Cats Tuesday" at www.poppiesatplay.blogspot.com

Something Near and Dear To My Heart

2009-09-14T10:39:00.004-04:00

As many of you already know, I am a breast cancer survivor. The 'Click Every Day' button is located on my sidebar. Your click will help to fund a free mammogram for a woman who otherwise may not be able to afford one. TODAY each click counts double so please take the time to be a part of this worthwhile cause! I know I say it often and you've probably already heard this a million and one times but it's true...EARLY DETECTION SAVES LIVES!!! (I am living proof, no doubt about that.)

I have a routine appointment to see my medical oncologist this afternoon. Last week I had a chest x-ray and bloodwork. I'll update later...

Thanks for going to the breast cancer site and clicking...make a difference today!

And The Winner Is.....

2009-09-12T10:31:00.004-04:00

We have a winner...it's 'The Scooper' from A La Mode...congratulations! (Please send me an e-mail and I'll get that package in the mail to you.) Thanks to all who participated in my first giveaway!

Hope everyone enjoys a wonderful weekend! We are having beautiful weather here in Michigan...yay!

A 300th Post Giveaway...Sign Up Now!

2009-09-08T12:32:00.007-04:00

Today was 'back to school' for my girls so I just wanted to share a cute picture I took of them sitting with their dad before they left for school! Taylor started her junior year and Tess started 8th grade. Keep scrolling to see the giveaway!

Today marks 300 posts for this blog...wow! I wanted to host a giveaway as a way to celebrate that and also thank the ones who visit here!

Let me tell you what's included in this giveaway:
*Small decorative wreath with pretty bow in fall colors
*"Leaves of Gold" poetry book
*A green throw from JCPenney Home Collection...it measures 48" x 54" (pictured under wreath/book)
*Pumpkin spice candle
*Handmade fabric "AUTUMN" banner...made especially for you by yours truly!

Here are a few important things to know about this giveaway:
*To enter - simply leave a comment on this post.
*You DO NOT need a blog to join in...I just need a way to contact you.
*I'll ship anywhere in the U.S. & Canada.
*Comments will close on Friday, 9-11 @ 11:59 p.m. (EST.) A winner will be randomly chosen and announced the next day, Saturday, 9-12.

Thank you to all who so graciously visit my blog and leave such wonderful comments...I appreciate it!

Check Out This Giveaway!

2009-09-04T08:14:00.002-04:00

Have you seen these adhesive plate hangers? Well, go over and visit Suzanne @ Southern Inspiration! This sweet gal is hosting a very nice giveaway that you really need to go check out! Hurry...go there NOW!

Well, wait just a quick sec before ya go 'cause I've gotta tell ya somethin'!

Speaking of giveaways, I got to thinking about this being a holiday weekend and all...so with that in mind, I'll show you what all's in my 300 post giveaway this coming Tuesday. I plan on choosing a winner next Friday and will announce it the next day. Sound good? I'll give a little hint...it's all about FALL!

A Really Ugly Tray Redo

2009-09-03T08:50:00.011-04:00

*This is my first time participating in Transformation Thursday. Go there to check out more cool projects! www.theshabbychiccottage.net

'U-G-L-Y...You ain't got no alibi...you ugly!' That's what was going through my head as I passed by this hideously decorated tray when I was thrifting at Goodwill recently. In fact, I walked right on by once, then came back around to that aisle. I decided to look past its ugliness and see the beautiful potential! Remove the tacky ribbons & pearls, a good coat of spray paint and this thing's gonna be a beaut! So into the cart it went.
I don't think I would've bought it, though, if it wasn't HALF-PRICE that day.
Here is the tray in all its glory after a little bit of love and attention. Some black spray paint, a few fall decorations and scrapbook paper....ahhh, so much better now!

Thanks for looking! Please go on over to see more awesome DIY projects at Kimba's place! www.asoftplacetoland-kimba.blogspot.com

*Oh my, can I be any more embarrassed? After 2 unsuccessful tries with McLinky adding it to the list @ ASPTL, I still don't think it worked...oh well!

I've Got The Laundry Blues...How 'Bout You?

2009-09-01T09:48:00.005-04:00

Photo courtesy of Country Living
Photo courtesy of Country Living
Photo courtesy of Pointclickhome

I have a problem. I have NEVER enjoyed doing laundry. It is one of my least favorite domestic chores. Give me a counter full of dirty dishes that need to be hand-washed and I'd RATHER take on that job! On the one hand, I'm so grateful to even have a family to do laundry for (5 people with 2 teenage girls in that mix) and on the other, I just can't stand the task! I seriously HATE doing laundry! Does anyone else feel this way?

I start out just fine. In fact, I'm a real stickler to sort everything well. I like to bleach my whites. Light colored and dark colored clothes all separated. Jeans together. Towels together. Whites. Etc. etc. etc. Putting it into the washer, then the dryer - no problem. THIS is where I get tripped up...folding it and putting it away! Am I the *only one* with this issue???? LOL

What laundry routines work for you? What's your biggest challenge...is it the folding and putting away, like me? Do you hang most of your clothes up or are they folded in a drawer?

Hey, thanks for your input!

*By the way, I am STILL planning to host my first giveaway to celebrate 300 posts. In fact, the plans are in the works and I'll share about it soon.

Have You Seen This Yet?

2009-08-26T12:40:00.003-04:00

Last week I went with my girls and their friends to see "The Time Traveler's Wife". Have any of you gone to see this yet? I thought it was just okay, not a fabulous 'must see' for me or anything. What did you think?

More Celebrating!

2009-08-25T09:41:00.010-04:00

19 years ago today I became a "Mrs." - on the Mister's birthday, no less! Wow, we both look SO young! haha
Here he was laying on the altar after the pictures were all done saying, "I can't believe I'm married!" Notice the marriage license in his hand :) (On a side note, my mom & I made my wedding gown and veil/headpiece. She was a very talented seamstress, I'll tell ya that!)
Our 10th year of marriage...(oh, and by the way, there really isn't anything on my tooth - not sure why this picture looks like it)!

The last 3 pictures were all from spring/summer 2008. Before cancer treatment. We don't really have too many taken of us during this last year 'cause I just didn't want to see myself like that. I'm sure you can understand.

Bobby has been a great husband. Wonderfully supportive. Of course, we've had our ups and downs through these last 19 years like all married couples but I've gotta say - he has made my life F-U-N! Happy Birthday/Anniversary, B!!!

Thanks for looking...have a great day!

It's Birthday Time Around These Parts

2009-08-24T19:42:00.009-04:00

18 years ago today we were blessed with this sweet lil' bundle of joy...Tyler Robert made his appearance @ 9:44 a.m. 8 lbs., 1 oz. 21 inches long. Oh, and that's the proud grandma standing next to her firstborn son (my husband) who is holding her adorable first grandchild :)
Tyler has always been such a sweetheart...
We've been through a lot these last 18 years, including this terrifying accident just over a year ago. What you're looking at is what's left of Ty's car. You can read more about that accident... http://treasurethemoment-michelle.blogspot.com/2008/05/tyler-update.html
That's why I don't mind the 3 tattoos Ty has. (Only one is pictured.) At first they really bothered me; I can't lie. But ya know what? After all we've been through between Ty's accident, my cancer diagnosis/treatment, etc. etc., does it even matter? Although I have to admit, today Tyler was on the phone with one of his buddies joking that he was gonna go get his tongue pierced and I think I noticeably flinched. Imagine my relief when he said he was just kidding! He told his friend he just wanted to see his mom's reaction. Nice.
Tyler and me - Graduation Day, June 2009. We're so proud of this guy!
Senior Picture, June 2009. Happy 18th Birthday to a very special son!

Tomorrow is not only my husband's birthday, it's also our 19th wedding anniversary! Yes, we got married on his 25th birthday on the 25th of the month. What's that? Dumb, you say? Um yeah, I'd definitely file that one under "What NOT to do"!!! LOL I'll share about us tomorrow, how does that sound?

My First Giveaway!

2009-08-19T21:45:00.002-04:00

Well, it's kinda unbelievable to me to think I've had this blog for about 2 years now and will be hitting the 300 post mark real soon. In honor of that, I thought I'd host a nice giveaway :) Stay tuned for upcoming details!

We All Really Do Need To Take Time...

2009-08-18T21:39:00.003-04:00

I had to go to another funeral today. One of my husband's cousins passed away last Friday night. She had been dealing with breast cancer for several years. She left behind a wonderful husband and two beautiful teenage daughters. She died two days before her 25th wedding anniversary and only one day before a family reunion they were planning to host at their cabin. How truly sad.

I think we all need to take time to stop, pause and enjoy the little moments in life. Take the time to make sure our loved ones know how we feel. After all, we are not promised tomorrow. We really do need to live each day like it could be our last. Between the two funerals I've gone to last week and today, I'm once again reminded to do my best to live and love intentionally.

A Life Cut Short...

2009-08-13T09:40:00.002-04:00

A 12 year old boy from our church died this past Sunday evening. He went to the same youth group as my daughters. We are going to the funeral this morning. Please keep this young man's family in prayer. My heart hurts for them.

Projects Galore

2009-08-12T17:00:00.007-04:00

We are in the midst of redoing my youngest daughter's bedroom. This week I've been sewing all the bedding. I'm making a duvet cover, shams, throw pillows and a roman shade. I've also got several 'redo' projects in the works...

#1. Repaint a vanity we already have a glossy black.

#2. Redo a French memo board from Tess' old room.

#3. Repaint an iron headboard/footboard I found secondhand.

#4. Redo a lamp & lampshade we already have.

Here are a few other things planned for the room...

*Tess is a budding photographer. I'm going to print off some of her favorites and put them in black frames to hang on the wall.

*Buy a new vanity chair. Tess saw one at Target she really likes.

*Buy a mirror to hang on her door.

*Decoupage a wooden "T" initial with black & white zebra scrapbook paper.

Lots of work but I am happiest when I am busy!

It's That Day of the Week Again!

2009-08-06T06:27:00.002-04:00

Yup, it's that time again! Check out all the cool DIY stuff over @ Kimba's . There's always lots to see and become inspired by each and every week :) (Thanks for hosting, Kimba!)

First off, check out this cute little table I rescued from the curb and painted/decoupaged. I love the curvy lines of it, don't you? I don't have a before photo but picture peeling wood, nasty, gross! One day last fall a friend came over and saw it for the first time and actually offered to pay me for it...but I just couldn't part with it! (That lamp/shade were very cheap Goodwill buys.)

Oh my, would ya take a look at these beauties? Um yeah, not sure they can get ANY uglier! The chair was another Goodwill find for about 5 bucks. The ottoman was another curbside rescue.
A little fabric...
A bit of trim, ribbon, a trusty hot glue gun...
And a lot of imagination...NOW they're pieces I don't mind having in my home!

Thanks for looking! Hurry, go get inspired by all the neat things in Blogland!

Blogging Friend Becomes 'RLF'!

2009-08-05T16:26:00.006-04:00

So I shared last week how I had the wonderful opportunity to meet up with a special blogging friend of mine...Kim from Kim's Treasures. Let me tell you about our day! But first I'll show you the thoughtful, lovely gifts she brought. Isn't this such an adorable pen & paper set? I love it! And how 'bout that "M"? I love that, too! Not pictured but definitely appreciated were 3 mini journals. See, I was nice and shared them with my daughters :)
Look what Kim made...a market bag with her 'signature' yo-yos! Can't wait to use it! (Do any of you use recycled shopping bags? I've just started doing that in the last few months.) I am always so touched to receive a handmade gift, to be honest. It means a lot to me to know someone has put such special thought and time into it! Thanks again, Kim, for every single thing!

We first met at a Cracker Barrel restaurant with the intentions of having lunch, then doing a little shopping. Well, it turned into doing A LOT of shopping and having a later lunch! There's not a Home Goods store anywhere close to where I live so we checked that out. Oh my, so many neat things to see - there's some major eye candy in that place! We have TJ Maxx and a Marshall's but not a store as big as that Home Goods. If money was no object, I definitely could've have dropped a bundle in there! haha Next, we made the rounds to the 'usuals'...Target, BB & B, Michael's and a few other places. Then we found a HUGE Salvation Army...I'm talking mucho grande, people...BIG, BIG place! As with any thriftin' trip, one has to sift through junk to truly find treasures. Kim found a few kitchen things she'd been looking for. I didn't see anything that exactly jumped out at me that day so I left empty-handed.

Kim & I were hungry by that time so we headed on back to Cracker Barrel for a late lunch and some awesome conversation. The restaurant was not at all crowded so that was nice. It was such fun getting to know each better!

There's MORE to look forward to, I'm very pleased to say. Kim will be with her daughter in MY area several times over the next few months...that will be quite a treat!

If you ever have an opportunity to meet up with a blogging friend, I'd highly recommend it! This is my second time doing so. Last year about this time I was able to meet Kelly from Serenity Cottage.

All of my family lives at least an hour or more away from me so I do try to make the most of the time I'm in that particular area. The day I met Kim was no exception. I was able to stop in to see my Aunt Lois. From there I went to see my cousin Tammy. I was going to visit with my sister, too, but just ran out of time :(

Thanks for reading about my fun day! Hope you're all having a great week :)

Time FLEW!!!

2009-07-31T19:48:00.002-04:00

Wow, I am pretty amazed at how quickly this week went by! I had the privilege of meeting a fellow blogger on Monday...Kim from Kim's Treasures is just the sweetest, nicest, friendliest, warm gal you'd ever hope to meet and I had SUCH a good time! I'll be writing a full blog post this coming week to share about the fun we had :)

A two-day head-splitting-out-of-this-world migraine followed my fun day out and slowed me down considerably this week. I also had an appointment to see my radiation oncologist and I have AWESOME news to share on that...he said everything is looking good, I am doing well and won't have to go back to the radiation center until next year....YAY, YAY, YAY! I'm experiencing a few little discomforts here and there that aren't so pleasant - a bit of lymphodema, pain around the place where my trusty med-port had once been and I have what the doctor called a "clogged vein" on my right side below my rib - none of which I need to worry about, they tell me. And I'm really not, especially considering where I was health-wise a year ago at this time, ya know.

This coming week I have an appointment to see my plastic surgeon for some follow-up details regarding my reconstruction. The minimum wait in that doctor's office is about 2 hours so I always make sure I have a good book started!

No big major weekend plans around here. What about you guys?

A Delightful Day Trip

2009-07-24T15:13:00.016-04:00

I had the opportunity to get out of town this week and spend a fun day away from the mundane and ordinary. Even though we were just gone for the day, we enjoyed a very nice time! My sister, two nephews & one of my nieces and her boyfriend met at our house to caravan to our destination. I had our two daughters and two of their friends in my vehicle. Four crazy teenage girls plus their favorite music equals a whole lotta laughter and fun! Man, we had a blast on the way there! See, we have this tradition of singing along to the radio or CD whenever we go somewhere...doesn't matter who can sing well or not...if ya know all the words or not...ah, none of that even counts. The point is that we're having F-U-N and making memories! The girls all crack up at me because I know most of the words to so many songs from the 80s :) (Hey, don't laugh...that was my era!)
Lake Huron in Michigan is beautiful! Cold, but beautiful!
My sweet sister did an outstanding job of packing a wonderful picnic lunch. (We both brought stuff but she really outdid herself!) These pesky guys kept trying to get our food! At one point, one of those buggers DID snatch up a snack size bag of chips from the boys! The chips scattered and so many of those seagulls were fighting for a taste :)
You can actually walk up into this lighthouse for a nominal fee. I opted to skip it this time. My sister took one of her boys while the rest of us stayed on the beach.
We drove to the Lumberman's Monument after a full day @ Lake Huron.

Ah, such crazy girls they are!

The kids and I were supposed to take an out-of-state trip this past week but it's on hold for now. Just temporarily getting out of town was nice, though.

Have any of you taken any cool vacations this summer or have you stuck pretty close to home?

Enjoy your weekend!

DIY Day @ ASPTL

2009-07-23T08:01:00.000-04:00

Today I'm participating in Kimba's DIY Day @ A Soft Place To Land. Be sure to visit everyone and take a look at their projects...don't forget to leave a comment...we all love getting them, don't we?!
What can I say? Yes, I admit it...I caved. I'm not usually a follower and copycat but since I liked the idea so much I jumped on the bandwagon and made some house numbers for my front door :) I first got the idea from Holly @ Homebody several weeks back. (Thanks, Holly!) I didn't have any contact paper on hand so I picked a roll up for $2 at Dollar General and got started. I printed the letters/numbers out in a Microsoft Word program, taped them to the contact paper and used my exacto knife to cut everything out. Voila...here's the finished product! What I love is how easy and temporary this project is. If I don't like it or move, it can easily be removed.

Thanks for looking!

An Anniversary!

2009-07-22T09:40:00.009-04:00

Tomorrow is an anniversary. And anniversaries are all about celebrating, right? Well, that's exactly what I'm doing!

One year ago I got the news...

That terrible, dreaded phrase no one EVER wants to hear...

The big "C" word...

Yes, one year ago I was told I had breast cancer. So many emotions swirled through my head...

'I'm too young; I'm only 40!' 'I don't want to die!' 'I can't believe this is happening!' 'I'm so scared!' Those were just a FEW of the thoughts running around that I tried to chase away.

Like it or not, I started on a journey that day. One I certainly didn't sign up for but had to go on anyway - ready or not. Cancer doesn't care if your house is clean or you've got a vacation planned! LOL

Today, I can celebrate. Today, I can reflect back on this last year and see just how far I've come. The journey hasn't been easy. It's been filled with pain, sickness, sadness, tears, anger, frustration...but also with a whole lot of these things - love, support, kindness, encouragement, thoughtfulness, help, laughter, joys.

I MADE IT THROUGH! Through surgeries and chemotherapy and losing my hair, my eyelashes, my eyebrows. Through feeling like a freak without all of those things. Through wigs and bandanas. Through pain so bad I felt like I couldn't take another minute more. Through radiation treatments.

And NOW I'm on the other side...

Eyebrows, eyelashes, HAIR! All treatments...DONE! I'm ALIVE! I feel WONDERFUL! It's amazing! I'm so thankful. God brought me through!

Some of you know this and some of you don't. My mom died of breast cancer that had metastasized to her bones; she was only 49 years old. She had been an oncology nurse for about 23 years. Two of my mom's sisters and a niece are breast cancer survivors. One of my dad's sisters is a breast cancer survivor. I was well acquainted with breast cancer long before my own diagnosis.

Can I tell you something about how you can be supportive to someone dealing with cancer?

JUST BE THERE. You don't have to say a bunch of flowery words. Don't make the cliche' statements like 'Everything happens for a reason' or stuff like that. (Doesn't help. Not one bit. In fact, it just made me want to avoid the people who said it. Just bein' real.)

ASK what you can do that will help the most. That could be anything practical like making meals, helping with kids or cleaning house, etc. Or it could be driving to doctor's appointments/treatments. Just depends on the individual.

DO CALL OR SEND CARDS. Just to know I was being thought of and prayed for...that was huge for me! Really think about that...doesn't take much to sign a card, add a stamp and send it. Or picking up the phone to say you're thinking of that person. Yet it means so much!

THERE *IS* A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN PITY AND CONCERN! Try to be as genuine as you can. Even if you don't know what to say, then just say that. Being honest is always better. I never wanted people feeling sorry for me. I could tell sincere concern and just plain 'ole pity.

I've been so blessed in so many ways through my journey. Like I said, it hasn't been easy. I've had to make the decision every single day to stay positive, find the GOOD in the situation. Sometimes that's really hard but it's there; you just have to search for it. I've faced much of this with quite a sense of humor...that has made it easier. Sometimes what else can you do? You're either gonna cry or laugh - comes down to a choice between the two!

There's a very easy way you can help. Look on my sidebar and click on the Breast Cancer Site link. That simple click will help to fund a mammogram for a woman who otherwise would not be able to have one done. We all know early detection saves lives. I am living proof that it does!

Be diligent about doing a monthly self breast exam. *YOU* know your own body and if something is not right. DO NOT put off going to see the doctor! I found the lump on my own, not through an exam by the doctor or a mammogram.

If there is anything I do to help someone out, please don't hesitate to send me an e-mail. (Address is listed on my sidebar.) I'm not an expert; I just know what I've gone through and I'm very open about my cancer experience...

Just wanted to add a bit more to this post. My friend Beth @ Aunties With Advice reminded me of something I'd shared right after my cancer diagnosis. Our daughter Tess, who was 12 years old at the time, wrote a very lovely poem. It touched my heart so deeply and I was so proud of her for sharing her feelings and fears. Tess has been a wonderful support to me throughout this last year. She helped shave my head when my hair started falling out and we decided to make a party of it! I am very blessed to have such awesome support from a wonderful family and from all of you, my blogging friends...THANKS!!!

I want it all fake,
I wish it wasn't real.
Everything inside me;
It's just the way I feel.
Can't it just go away?
Can't it just be fake?
Just some cruel joke,
Just a big mistake.
Making everyone scared.
I think it's all fake.
But it isn't at all.
We're all doing our best, not to see my family fall.
Dear God, oh please -
Let her be healed.
She's my mom.
And I love her.
I don't know what I would ever do without her.

~Tess...August 2008

Thrifting...It's A 'Hit Or Miss' and A Party

2009-07-20T08:02:00.002-04:00

Today I'm joining in the party over @ Rhoda's blog. Hop on over there to see more thrifty treasures! http://southernhospitality-rhoda.blogspot.com/ Thanks, Rhoda, for being such a lovely hostess! :-)

Found these little tins for 40 cents each at Salvation Army (or Salvo, as the kids all call it :)...
This plate is DEFINITELY a chalkboard paint project! Don't ya think ribbon will look adorable threaded through those holes?
Candleholder I found at Goodwill.

I was SO happy to score this Hallmark card organizer box @ Salvo! Brand-new, never opened - as you can probably see :)

I also found these fabric remnants and tablecloth @ Salvo. 25 cents each for the remnants. Tablecloth was only a couple bucks. I'm planning to use them for a few patio projects.

Thanks for looking and be sure to visit Rhoda's to see more treasures!

Happy Monday!

Why I Love Clearance Shopping

2009-07-17T09:35:00.000-04:00

Did you know Hobby Lobby is having NINETY PERCENT OFF their clearance section? Between HL & TJ Maxx, I found some super deals. I just couldn't resist this greenery arrangement - it found its way into my shopping cart! The price was right, I'd say, wouldn't you?

I honestly could barely believe my eyes when I saw this in the clearance section @ TJ Maxx! It was promptly snatched up and in my cart. I was so afraid I was gonna drop it on the way out to my car!

Another great find, this one for only 3 bucks...woo hoo!

Cute little cake stand from the Hob Lob 90% clearance section. Originally $34.99; got it for $3.50.
Love the square shape of this plate! This was marked $25.99 down to $2.60.
I bought the last 2 of these plates. They were $17.99 marked down to $1.80. I'd hoped they would fit into a tiered plate stand I already own, but they were just a little teeny tiny bit too big - ugh, I was disappointed!
Bookends - $1.80 for the pair.
Decorative magnetic board, originally priced @ $21.99 marked down to $2.20. Man, do I ever love finding great bargains like this!

What kind of treasures have you found lately?

DIY Thursday

2009-07-16T09:44:00.003-04:00

Today I'm participating in DIY Day hosted by Kimba @ A Soft Place To Land! For one project to share, I went waaaaay back to the beginning of my blog a couple of years ago to share a restyled art project. Then another one I shared was about the graduation party projects. Head on over to Kimba's to check out some fun transformations and great ideas...join in on the fun!

Handmade Thank-You Notes

2009-07-15T15:26:00.006-04:00

Do you remember these handmade envelopes that Tyler's graduation party invitation fit into? I made over 100 of them, along with the invitations and announcements. I had lots of long paper strip scraps leftover from the black & white music paper so of course I saved them (what scrapper wouldn't :-)...
I found a 50-count package of blank stationery cards/envelopes at good ole Wallyworld for FIVE BUCKS! Didn't really have a plan when I bought them; all I knew is I was gonna make "Thank You" cards for Ty to send out. Armed with paper scraps, paper trimmer, a glue stick, circle punch, an ink pad and a new stamp I bought @ Michael's for a buck, I set out to create the cards and here is what I came up with. (I'm NOT a great stamper and the perfectionist in me is having issues but they turned out okay - I can live with the results.)
Now, does anyone have any suggestions on how to get a teenage boy to write thank-you notes?! ha ha (He *has* started on them but there are more to be written.)

Graduation Projects.....FINALLY!

2009-07-14T20:50:00.022-04:00

Here's the photo display board I made for Tyler's graduation party.
I wanted it to have an organized look to it and not just a big mess of pictures overlapping onto each other. Believe it or not, there are just over 70 pictures on the board!
The "CONGRATS" banner I made.

Bought these numbers from the dollar store...
and transformed them into this!
This picture was taken as the food buffet table was being set up.

Fifty-cent-popcorn-buckets-turned-utensil-holders. I traced a pattern onto a paper grocery bag and cut it out; then used the pattern on each piece of scrapbook paper and cut those out. Next I used spray adhesive to adhere the paper to the bucket. The stars are actually star-shaped playing cards covered with scrapbook paper and letters. I punched a hole in the top and threaded ribbon through the star. I broke out the trusty glue gun and glued on fun pom-pom trim (on sale - it cost just under $2 for the 3) and the ribbon/star tag.
More scrapbook paper, a circle cutter, hole punch and ribbon for this project. All told, I cut out, punched and tied 135 circles! (Found the idea somewhere on the web and adapted it a little bit.) These sat under the table centerpieces.
This is what the centerpiece planters looked like when I first bought them.
Couldn't beat the price, especially for an FTD planter.
Quite obviously they were the wrong color but that's why spray paint is our best friend! ha ha
Plastic cardholder that came with the planter...
turned into this after I was done :)
This is what the centerpieces looked like - only the grass was actually green then, not brown and dying as it looks now :) (I just took this picture tonight and the party was just over 2 weeks ago.)

Thanks for looking at my party projects!

A Post With No Pics...Ugh!

2009-07-07T20:59:00.003-04:00

Thanks for all the nice compliments about the silverware holder thing-a-ma-jigs I made for Tyler's party! Just when I have lots of things to show, my camera batteries are all dead...yes, every single one of them! My youngest daughter unknowingly took my charger and all the remaining sets of batteries with her when she went away on a little trip with her friend...they were in her bag and we didn't realize it until a few days ago! Oh well, she'll be back tomorrow - then I can share the rest of the graduation party stuff and all the awesome bargains I found today while out thrifting. Be back soon :)

Computer Issues & A Project

2009-07-01T23:29:00.004-04:00

We've been having a few computer issues this week so I'm late in sharing some of the graduation party projects I made for Tyler's bash.

I was trying to think of something unique to hold the silverware and saw these popcorn buckets at my local dollar store for 50 cents each. Tomorrow I will show more pictures and share details of how I transformed them from blah & boring to beautiful!

The Party's Over!

2009-06-29T01:16:00.005-04:00

Ahhh, sweet relief...that's what I'm feeling right about now...Tyler's graduation party is now a pleasant memory to think back on and treasure forever! It was a lot of work and I'm pretty exhausted but it was well worth it. I have more pictures to share this week. I'll show you many of the projects I did for the party.

Our middle child, Taylor, turned "Sweet 16" today! (Wow, can I really be this old already...one graduated from high school and another almost driving...my youngest is officially a teenager now...where does the time go?)

Stay tuned to see some party projects!

It's Over!

2009-06-24T09:26:00.006-04:00

I am pleased to tell you that I finished my cancer treatment...last Thursday was my last radiation treatment...WOO-HOO!!!! I got that certificate & book from the radiation center. Wasn't that nice? I was teasing all of them that I felt like I had graduated! This is where we go from here...I saw my medical oncologist a week ago and everything was fine; I'll see him again in September and every few months after that. I go back to see my radiation oncologist next month and my plastic surgeon at the beginning of August. I am feeling AWESOME! (It feels so wonderful to be able to say that!) My hair is growing and growing and growing. My energy level is pretty high. I'm back to doing everything I used to. Oh yeah, LIFE IS GOOD!

In other news, our son's graduation party is this coming Saturday. I have been keeping SOOO busy with all of those details to pull off a great party. Thankfully I'm a list-maker by nature so that sure has helped to write down everything I can possibly think of that needs to be taken care of. (Should I mention I'm also a procrastinator so that's not good?!)

On that note, I've gotta make myself get away from this computer and get some things done!

My Thanks

2009-06-11T18:34:00.003-04:00

My thanks to all for the sweet comments you wrote and the prayers you said for our family. It's definitely been a L-O-N-G week. The funeral service for my grandma was a very nice one. My cousin's husband also spoke, as well as the pastor, and he did a great job. Steve invited a few people to share their memories of Grandma but I just couldn't do it. I've got LOTS of great memories but I don't know, just couldn't share anything at that moment. The dinner after the service was also very nice. Here's a goofy little story to share about my goofy husband making people laugh...The dinner was catered and there was a pretty water fountain as a decoration on the food table. My sister & nieces were in line by Bobby & me. Well, Bobby took his plastic fork and held it under that water fountain, then turned to my nieces and asked all serious-like, 'Have you girls washed your forks yet? You know that's what it's for, right?' Then we all started laughing...Bobby is such a goofball!

Today marks 17 years since my mom died. I miss her like crazy every single day but this time of year is especially difficult. It hardly seems possible that so many years have gone by! Not sure who said it or if I'm even repeating the quote correctly but anyway...they say 'time marches on and waits for no one'. How very true that is! Don't know about you but I sure can relate :-)

Sad News....

2009-06-07T15:17:00.003-04:00

My grandma passed away this morning @ 5 AM. I am very sad, although I also feel quite relieved to know she is no longer suffering. It was hard to see her like that, as you can imagine....

It's Official!

2009-06-06T00:11:00.007-04:00

We are all so proud of Tyler! The graduation ceremony was held inside the school gymnasium and whoa, it was SO hot in there! The graduating class had over 350 kids so it took a while to get through.
A proud father & son moment.
Of course, I had to get a big hug, too! (I still hate looking at pictures of myself right now...but hey, I am just glad to have hair again!)
My dad and Tyler. My step-mom was unable to make it so my sister came with my dad...she is camera shy, though. Tyler is the oldest grandson on my side of the family to graduate.
My in-laws with Tyler.
Taylor hugging her big bro. He is making such a goofy face!
Here's Tyler & Tess. I don't know why but he just loves to ham it up for the camera! I am glad the graduation ceremony is done; now I am looking forward to having the graduation party. I still have things left to do but all the plans are coming together quite nicely and many family members have offered to help. I appreciate that and I'm most definitely taking them up on it!

My grandma was moved to a hospice facility today. She now has a full oxygen mask on instead of the oxygen tube in the nose thing.

I talked to my cousin Tammy today to find out how my Aunt Lois' mastectomy surgery went. She said everything went well and I was glad to hear that.

Enjoy your weekend!

Lots of Emotions

2009-06-05T12:49:00.006-04:00

Thank you all so much for your sweet thoughts and prayers. Just wanted to check in and give a quick update. Wow, today is quite an emotional one for me. Tonight is Tyler's high school graduation commencement and I'm suspended somewhere between joy and disbelief! I just can't believe he is all grown up now and ready to step out into the world and make his way. His college plans are to attend a culinary arts program at a private university down south. We will travel there next month for the orientation. I keep asking myself, 'WHERE HAS THE TIME GONE???'

I did not go to my radiation treatment yesterday and instead made arrangements to meet my sister at her house, then head to the hospital to see our grandma. (They all live an hour south of me.) I do not have any good news. No, it was a day of finality and goodbyes, seeing and reminiscing with relatives I haven't seen in a while. Lisa & I stayed at the hospital until about 3:30 a.m. It was hard to walk out of there knowing I will not see Grandma alive again. Her 85th birthday is next Sunday. She is the last of our grandparents; the other 3 passed on years ago.

It was heartbreaking to see Grandma's frail little body, all bruised from the fall out of bed the other night that broke 3 of her ribs. The double pneumonia is causing her lungs to fill up with fluid, as she cannot cough anything up. Her breathing has become labored. There are no heroic measures being taken to save her life per her wishes...the family has agreed we all want to see Grandma comfortable. She will possibly be moved to a hospice facility today; haven't heard any word on that as of yet. We suspect Grandma thinks a few of her sons are her late husband (she has the advanced dementia); she perked right up when each of my uncles were comforting her.

I knew when I made the trip down there my grandma would not recognize me. I am glad I went. I am glad I was able to say goodbye. It seems like "goodbye" has 2 altogether separate meanings in my life today - Grandma and Tyler...

Prayers Needed, Please

2009-06-03T12:33:00.003-04:00

Please pray for my grandma. She is in critical condition at the hospital due to congestive heart failure and double pneumonia. Several years ago my grandma was diagnosed with Alzheimer's disease and it has progressively worsened as time has gone on. She has been living full time in a group home type setting where a lady takes care of Grandma and several other gals. The family home had to be sold years ago. The other night Grandma fell out of bed and fractured her ribs. She is unable to keep the pain medicine down. My dad said she rarely speaks anymore. It is all so very sad...

Also, my Aunt Lois is having a second mastectomy this Friday so pray for her, too. She found out the breast cancer returned.

Thanks in advance for your prayers. Will update as I am able.

A Blogging Break...

2009-05-19T09:58:00.002-04:00

As you may have guessed, I'm takin' a little blogging break! Things have gotten crazy busy with all this graduation stuff, I tell ya...making invitations, working on scrapbooks, going through BOXES of pictures and wondering why in the world I didn't write the dates on the backs of those pictures!

Hope all is well with you guys here in "Blogland" :) I'll be back once I get my act together LOL

A Lovely Surprise!

2009-05-08T12:35:00.004-04:00

My son surprised me today with this hanging basket of pretty flowers! (You've gotta understand...Tyler NEVER does anything like this!)

See how much my hair is growing in? I'm SO excited!!! And check out the eyebrows and eyelashes...yep, those are coming back in, too! (As a matter of fact, I need to tweeze & shape those brows a bit - ah, what a great problem to have LOL) My hair has a bit of a wave to the texture; it was like that when I was an infant but turned straight as a stick as I got older. I don't care...just as long as I have hair!!!

Have a great weekend...HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY!!!!!

It's Official!

2009-05-06T07:39:00.002-04:00

Well, it's official...our daughter Taylor got her learner's permit yesterday! She's very excited about that, as you can imagine :)

I'm still swamped with Tyler's graduation party details! Making the invitations has been quite a task but I wouldn't have it any other way...I'm so pleased with how they're turning out and I like the fact that they have a personal touch.

Radiation treatments are going along fine. I have found the radiation therapists to be much less friendly than the chemo nurses I had and I don't know - that just kinda bugs me. It's bad enough having to lay so still but then feeling uncomfortable because no one is saying anything makes it a bit awkward.

We've been enjoying some lovely spring days. Flowers are blooming everywhere! We took our swing out of the garage where it had been stored for the winter and put it on the front porch. I decided to put it in front instead of the backyard and I'm so glad I did...the girls and I have been sitting there in the evenings all cuddled up together in a big blanket, giggling and sharing some sweet memories...I love that!

Consider this...

2009-04-29T10:08:00.003-04:00

I HATE cancer; I absolutely detest even hearing that word these days! I am learning to do things at the moment - when they're on my mind - instead of waiting. Last night I was thinking about one of my mom's sisters so I just picked up the phone and called her. I knew she was waiting to hear results of a recent MRI done on her breast. Aunt Lois was diagnosed with breast cancer in the last couple of years and underwent surgery just over a year ago. She got the news last night....and it's NOT good....the cancer has returned. Please keep her in your prayers. I'd really appreciate that.

So let me just mention a few things to you. Please, please, please - for the sake of you and your loved ones - DO YOUR MONTHLY SELF-BREAST EXAMS! DO NOT put it off if you think you should see the doctor. DO NOT pass it off as nothing. It just might save your life! Also, consider getting involved with your local "Relay For Life" event. (I am unable to participate this year as I'm still undergoing treatment and just don't feel like I have the endurance but I'm going to in the future.)

Day #3 of radiation today. Everything is going along just fine. I am finding the most difficult thing for me is to lay absolutely still during my treatment. Seems like THAT is the time when the bridge of your nose itches or your eyes are watering or you feel like you've got to move your feet! One of the solutions was to have them use a band to keep my feet together and it seems to help.

How is YOUR week going?

It's Been A While!

2009-04-22T11:47:00.005-04:00

Wow, I've been away from this blog for quite some time! Haven't really done that intentionally. Things have just been pretty busy. I've been working on making custom invitations for our son Tyler's graduation open house. I printed his picture out on textured cardstock. (I edited the picture you see but didn't want to share personal details on this blog; the one I'm sending out has his full name with "Class of 2009" on it. The picture is also framed in black with soft edges.) I then printed out the party details on the same size piece of vellum and attached it with silver brads. The invitation is tucked into a custom made envelope I decorated with patterned scrapbook paper, ribbon and the "celebrate" stamp. I have to say, I'm pleased with how they've turned out! I didn't see anything similar online but the custom ones I DID see had prices starting at $41.99 per 25...yikes, I think that's expensive!

Overall I have been recovering quite well from the surgeries I had, although I've been having severe pain in my arm - the one where they took all the lymph nodes from. You know how it feels when you're having your blood pressure taken and that cuff is at its tightest point? Well, that's how my arm feels ALL THE TIME! Numb and tingly, painful to the touch - just a very odd sensation. I mentioned it to the home health care nurse when she was here a week ago. She checked my arm, felt a bump and suspected a blood clot. I called my family doctor and the oncologist - both of them wanted me to go to the ER to have it checked out. I did. A doppler ultrasound was done. Praise God no blood clot was found! I'm still in pain but glad there was nothing serious. My radiation oncologist prescribed medicine for the pain but I'm honestly not too hip on all the side effects I've read about with this particular one so I haven't gotten the prescription filled and not sure if I will.

I also went to the radiation center to get prepped for my upcoming treatments. Got all marked and molded. Had a CT scan done. They have to take some films this Friday. Then I'll start the actual treatments next Monday. I requested mornings so I don't have to waste my whole day. I'd rather go in, have it done and get on with the day.

No "real" springtime weather here yet...a few nice days thrown in here and there but it has been COLD! I've seen some flowers beginning to bloom and that's always enjoyable.

Hope everyone is doing well and maybe I'll get around to visiting all of you :)

Extra Extra Read All About It!!!

2009-04-08T11:35:00.002-04:00

I'm feeling SOOOOOOO much better now! Thanks for all your sweet comments and for checking in on me :) It was really rough going for quite a few days there. The home health nurse came yesterday and said everything looks great at the incision site - that drain tube is ready to come out. That will probably happen sometime before the end of this week.

OK, so I'm a little embarrassed to admit this but yesterday was the first day since I had surgery that I actually got dressed in "REAL" clothes - not just pajamas or casual 'wear-it-only-around-the-house' clothes. (C'mon, you know what I'm talking about...those favorite pair of sweats you wouldn't be caught dead wearing outside your house! hehe) Anyway, my son Tyler played chauffeur for the day and took me to the grocery store. Let me tell ya, it's bad enough laying around on the couch but it's even worse laying around on the couch being hungry with nothing that sounds too appetizing! (Somehow saltine crackers or ramen noodles just didn't cut it.) Yes, I DESPERATELY needed to grocery shop! I felt a great sense of accomplishment last night after our trip to the store :)

The doctor who performed my lymph node surgery called me yesterday with the pathology report...GREAT NEWS!!! All of the lymph nodes tested NEGATIVE for cancer...whoooo hoooooo!!!!! Oh yeah, doin' the happy dance :) Sometimes I feel like I'm playing Monopoly...now I can advance to the next space - which, in this case, will be radiation. ha ha Yep, things are moving right along and I am very happy about that.

Oh, and I recently won a giveaway hosted by Michele @ Country Vintage blog so I'll have to share a picture of the goodies. Thanks again, Michele...LOVE everything!

Have a WONDERFUL WEDNESDAY!!!!

Not So Easy This Time

2009-04-04T13:26:00.002-04:00

Well, it's been a couple of days since I had my surgery and oh my goodness, I am ever in a lot of pain! The recovery from this surgery is definitely going to be a harder road than even what I remember my bi-lateral mastectomy was.

The latest surgery was an axillary lymph node dissection and it was supposed to take about 2 hours, 45 minutes to complete. Thankfully the doctor was able to get right in there and finish in an hour & a half. All the lymph nodes were sent to pathology and we should hear something within a week or so. I had to go home with a Jackson-Pratt drain tube that comes out from my left side, underneath my arm. It has to be drained several times a day.

I didn't know it ahead of time, but the doctor ordered a home health care nurse to come in a couple of times a week for the next few weeks. A very nice gal named Ann came over yesterday afternoon to fill out the paperwork, help drain my tube, take my vitals and answer any questions I had. She was quite helpful and I'm so thankful our insurance covers this service.

It's frustrating for me to just lay on the couch and flip through TV channels, to be honest with you. I'd definitely rather be up and around but I know I've got to rest and recover. Bobby and the kids have been great to help me out.

Just wanted to update you...have a great weekend :-)

Recovery...

2009-03-31T21:21:00.002-04:00

Thanks for the well wishes, happy thoughts and prayers :) I am very happy to report my surgery went great last Friday and I'm recovering quite well...just in time in time for my NEXT surgery this Thursday! Believe it or not, the most sore area is where the doctor removed my med port. It's right near my collarbone and it's very uncomfortable. Other than that, I'm not feeling too badly. I'm up and around - just moving a little more slowly. I don't feel nervous about Thursday, not really. I think some of that is because I don't have too much time to dwell on the details, as everything is happening so rapidly. I'll keep everyone posted on how the next surgery goes :)

Time Has Been Flying By This Week!

2009-03-26T12:00:00.002-04:00

Tomorrow I'll be having the first of my two surgeries. Wow, I am ever nervous! But then I think about how it will put me one step closer to finishing treatment and I'm thankful for that...

The appointment with my oncologist this past Monday went well. I found out I'll be able to have my med port removed tomorrow during the surgery. This part wasn't news to me 'cause I already knew I'll have to be on Tamoxifen for five years but the doctor gave me the prescription for that. The other doctor's appointment I had this week to see the plastic surgeon also went well. Now it's just a countdown until tomorrow.

I'll be back around soon to let you all know how everything goes :)

Happy First Day of Spring!

2009-03-20T11:58:00.003-04:00

Happy First Day of Spring to all! It is still rather chilly where I live but I'm thankful for the beautiful sunshine :)

Today I'll be running errands and working on getting some things accomplished around the house. Next week is filled with doctor appointments....AND a surgery! Yes, that's right...I'll be having the completion of my breast reconstruction surgery next Friday...one week from today. The week after that I will have my other surgery - the one where they'll remove additional lymph nodes. I'll get a two week break to recover before I begin radiation. I found out I will be having 33 radiation treatments - 5 days per week, for 6 & a half weeks. Then I'll be DONE!

Wishing each of you a wonderful weekend!

How Do I Do That?

2009-03-19T09:00:00.003-04:00

Let me just tell you...I am NOT a computer whiz so I have no idea how to use Mister Linky. Holly from the Homebody blog is hosting "Thrift Store Thursday" and I'd love to link up but I don't know how! Can someone out there give me some assistance here?? Anyone???!!! Thank you :-)

**Edited to add : A great big thanks to Jan & Nancy! I *think* I got it! You know what's funny? I've never been a part of any blog party 'cause I haven't known how to use that whole Mister Linky thing LOL

Thrift StoreThursday

2009-03-18T13:52:00.006-04:00

Holly is hosting "Thrift Store Thursday" so go check out her blog to see what other treasures have been found!
I'm finally getting around to sharing my fun treasures from the thrift store. I thought this bunny wreath was pretty cute, don't you? (Especially for a cheap price!)
Isn't this little topiary adorable? I added the spring-y ribbon. The bunny says "Happy Easter".
How can ya beat paying 39 cents for this sweet lil bunny figurine?

5 little custard cups for 69 cents. I'm thinking about them all lined up with a candle in each one. How cute would that be?! Gotta think outside the box here.
How 'bout this 3 pc. canister set for about $5? I've been looking for something like these for a while now.
Brand-new picture frames, originally from Target. The markdown Target price was $3.74 for the 4x6 size; $3.24 for the 3x3 size. I paid $1.69 for each one at Goodwill. Gonna paint these guys for sure, as I don't like gray too much.
Got this pedestal for 49 cents. I'll probably give it a spray paint makeover but haven't decided what color or where I'll put it. Just couldn't pass it up at that price!
This plate was definitely my most favorite find of all! Yes, that's cheap curling type ribbon on it right now - ewwww! But I could immediately see the potential and was very thrilled to find it. Great price too, huh?! I'll be sure to share the 'after' soon.

Thanks for looking at my thrift store treasures!

CHEEP, CHEEP!!!

2009-03-14T15:59:00.004-04:00

OK, so I finally got brave today and decided to show you a picture of MY NEW HAIR!!! It's slowly but surely growing...mostly at the back and sides; just a little on top so far. Still waiting on those eyebrows! My face seems extra puffy and my eyes water like crazy most of the time - they tell me it's just the effects of the chemo/steroids still in my body. It should get better in a month or so...

Anyway, my new hair is really soft - kinda like a little baby chick. ha ha! So that is the joke around my house. Sometimes I kid around and do a little duckling imitation... 'cheep, cheep' :-) I barely wear a wig anymore. Mostly because I just don't care what people think these days. I proudly wear my bandanna and call it good! See, at the beginning when you first lose your hair and you're trying to make sense of everything, all I wanted to do was "blend in" and not have people looking at me wondering what happened. The loss of hair was more emotional for me than I EVER realized it would be.

At one point, it didn't matter one way or the other if I wanted to wear my wig. Here's a funny little story about that. A pile of my husband's work clothes were sitting in the chair in our bedroom waiting for him to take to the dry cleaners and what neither one of us knew at the time was MY WIG was in that pile!!! I searched high and low for that dumb thing for several days...still couldn't find it. The mystery was finally solved when Bobby picked up his cleaning ;)

These last few months sure have been hard ones and I've still got quite a bit to go before I'm done with my cancer journey but I feel like I'm seeing a light at the end of the tunnel now. I can't even begin to explain what a wonderful feeling that is! Unless you've been there, you just have no idea....

P.S. Deena, this one's for you!!!!

The Latest Info...

2009-03-05T09:21:00.004-05:00

My doctor's appointment went well this past Monday. I have a surgery date...Thursday, April 2nd. I was honestly a little disappointed it wouldn't be sooner - so I could just get it over with, recover and move on to the radiation treatments. See, now the problem is that I won't be finished with radiation much before Tyler's graduation and all of those activities. My secret hope was that I would at least be done and feeling pretty good by that time. Oh well, that's the earliest date I could be put on the surgeon's schedule...

It has been just over a week since my last chemo treatment and I seem to be feeling better each day. I'm so glad for that. I've gotta be honest...I used to take my health for granted, like so many of us do, before I was diagnosed with cancer. I don't now at all, that's for sure! I value each day and actually feeling good is an exciting thing.

I went thrifting last night and found some amazing things. I'll have to take pictures and share in an upcoming post.

Our daughter's drivers training is going well. Class started on Monday and yesterday was her first time out driving on the road. Taylor proudly announced to me when I picked her up that very soon she can drive me around - oh my, how quickly they grow up, don't they!

Hope you all have a wonderful day...I'm off to do some shopping and meet my husband for lunch :)

Computer Issues...Resolved!

2009-02-28T11:16:00.002-05:00

So glad to say we resolved our computer issues - yay! Guess I didn't realize how much I really DO get online until I didn't have immediate computer access :)

Well, here's a little update on my health/cancer journey. I have a surgical consultation appointment this Monday to discuss my upcoming axillary lymph node dissection surgery. From what I've been told, it will be scheduled within the next few weeks. My husband is unable to get off work to take me to the out-of-town appointment so my favorite cousin Tammy (a cancer survivor herself) will go with me. We're planning to make a fun time of it by hanging out after and going out to dinner or something. Ya know, some girl time. Tammy & I always have a great time when we get together so at least having that to look forward to will take some of the edge off the purpose of the day.

I also have an appointment to meet with a radiology oncologist to discuss my upcoming radiation treatments. Those will start once I recover from the lymph node surgery - which I'm told has an average 2-4 week recovery time. (Who knows? We'll see.) Radiation will consist of 5-day-per-week treatments for 6 weeks.

There will also be upcoming appointments to see the plastic surgeon regarding my breast reconstruction surgery but that's on down the road. (I currently have chest expanders that are in preparation for the implants.) I'm honestly not thinking about this part of the journey yet. Nope, just focusing on the next few parts I mentioned.

In lighter news, our middle child - oldest daughter - will begin driver's training on Monday. Wow, that seems incredible to me! Taylor is looking very forward to it.

I've really been so out of touch with blogging. What is going on with everyone? Hopefully I'll be around to visit this week. Have a great weekend!

Computer Issues...

2009-02-26T16:59:00.002-05:00

We've been having computer issues...as in, our computer is F-R-I-E-D now! AHHHHH!!! I'm at the library at the moment. Hopefully we'll get these problems fixed soon and I'll be back to regularly posting again.

GREAT NEWS!!! I am ALL finished with chemo...YIPPEE!!! This past Tuesday marked the last of my treatments. Not done with this journey, but at least the chemo part is behind me.

Hope everyone is well. I'll be back when I can.

It's Been A While...

2009-02-16T10:58:00.003-05:00

Whoa, it sure has been a while since I last posted anything...can't believe 11 days have passed! I honestly just haven't been feeling good physically and emotionally I'm just sick and tired of this whole cancer journey. I'm looking very forward to the 'being done with chemo' milestone (2 to go) but then I also know there are more surgeries/treatment to follow and sometimes it's all so overwhelming. I'm feeling impatient about a lot of things. Sure, my hair IS growing back but I want a full head of it N-O-W! I look outside and I'm tired of seeing snow...I want to enjoy the warmth of spring days. And the list goes on :) It's a just a "restless" stage of life right now but this too shall pass and I'm glad...

OREO Cookie Pudding Dessert

2009-02-05T07:23:00.000-05:00

Boy oh boy, do you EVER have to try this recipe if you're an Oreo cookie lover. M'mmm, it's so delicious! I made it to take to a friend's house on Superbowl Sunday and it sure was a hit :) I think we all went back for seconds!

Let me just pass along that I used store brand ingredients for almost everything listed and it turned out quite well - so don't feel you HAVE TO use what's listed in the recipe. Just tellin' ya - for whatever it's worth.

OREO COOKIE PUDDING DESSERT

1 stick of butter or margarine, softened
1/2 cup confectioners powdered sugar
1 large package instant chocolate pudding
1 (8 ounce) package cream cheese, softened
1 package OREO cookies
1 (8 ounce) tub Cool Whip

In a food processor chop OREO cookies into fine pieces. Reserve 1/2 cup cookie crumbs; set aside. Cut butter into fine pieces and add to cookie crumbs; mix. Spread the crumb mixture in a 9x13 pan to create crust. In a mixing bowl, add cream cheese and powdered sugar; beat until well blended. Gently fold in half a tub of the Cool Whip; spread over crust. In a small bowl, make chocolate pudding according to package directions; spread over cream cheese mixture to create the next layer. Spread the remaining Cool Whip over the chocolate pudding. Sprinkle the reserved cookie crumbs on top. Refrigerate for about 2 hours before serving. YIELD: 10-12 servings.

Tell me if you try it and what you think!

Quiet Times...

2009-02-03T13:14:00.004-05:00

Life has been pretty quiet and low-key lately, which is just fine with me :) As a result, I don't really have too much to blog about...

*Today was a "CHEMO DAY". Only THREE treatments left. WOO-HOO! My next appointment to see the oncologist will be on 2/16. My lymph node surgery will be scheduled for sometime in March. Radiation will follow.

*My hair is really starting to come in - YAY! Maybe I'll get brave and take a picture of it to post. At first it looked white or {GASP!} gray but now it's dark and looks almost like I have dirt on my head or something.

*It's snowing AGAIN. I am tired of snow, winter, bitterly cold days. Hurry soon, spring!

*Tess LOVES her new glasses. I've never even once had to remind the kid to wear them!

*A monthly book club for women is starting up at my church next week. I really enjoy reading so I'm looking forward to this!

What have all of you been up to?

A Tag Game!

2009-01-28T12:53:00.004-05:00

I've been tagged to play a photo game by Sher @ Sher's Creative Expressions!

Here are the rules to this fun game:

1) Go to the 4th folder where you keep your pictures on your computer.
2) Post the 4th picture in the folder.
3) Explain the photo.
4) Tag 4 fellow bloggers to join in the fun!

Since I really stink at tagging people, just go on ahead and join in if you'd like, OK? OK, sounds good!

*Here's the explanation of my photo. It was taken in August 2008 at Navy Pier in Chicago. Bobby & I took a dinner cruise that left from Navy Pier. It was a very fun time. This picture was taken from the window of our hotel room.

This & That News...

2009-01-20T18:36:00.005-05:00

I had a chemo treatment this morning and it went well. My blood counts were probably the highest they've been - yay! The nurses were quite pleased with the numbers. I also found out that I miscalculated what treatment # I'm on...ONLY FIVE MORE TO GO!!!!! Five, that's it! Just think how quickly 5 weeks pass by. I am beyond thrilled!

I don't know if I've shared this part about chemo before. I go on the same day at the same time every week. That's how they work it at my oncologist's office. So you get to see the same people almost every week. There is a very nice couple in their mid 60s who come in at the same time I do. The husband has lung cancer. We always sit next to each other and visit throughout our treatment times. Today we were sharing more details of our respective cancer journeys. Ben never smoked a day in his life and ended up with lung cancer. It was a big shock to Ben & his wife. His cancer was found when he was in the hospital for heart-related issues.

People who are dealing with cancer just have this whole 'kindred spirits' thing going on. I mean, you feel like you can just be so open. Ben asked me if I ever discussed my prognosis with the oncologist. He asked but never got a straight answer - just a bunch of statistics about lung cancer. I've never really come right out and asked, not in a very specific way anyhow. The doctor just threw it out there...'The prognosis is good.'

I've also kept in touch with a gal from chemo whose treatments are done now. We went to the same group of doctors - breast surgeon, plastic surgeon and oncologist. The encouragement and understanding I got from Dian was priceless. She's a very upbeat lady.

But sadly, as I'm sure you're aware, not every person with cancer chooses to be open. In my opinion - and through MY experience - one really robs themselves of love, care, compassion, understanding, someone to vent to, cry with, encouragement...all of the things you need at a time like this! I met another lady at chemo who only told ONE other person she had cancer and swore them to secrecy. Let me tell you, it gets difficult trying to be brave and strong all the time - much less not revealing something so life changing as a cancer diagnosis. Cause it does change every aspect about your life. I would find it much too difficult to play the role of pretender.

I heard of another person today - a friend of a friend - who is a single, middle-aged man facing a recurrence of cancer but doesn't want any help from anyone. I guess he said something to the effect that he's a strong person so he'll just get through this - he doesn't need anyone. That makes me sad to hear how he is robbing himself from so many things he needs. No, it's not my business. I know that. But I think it's extremely sad.

In other news, our youngest daughter Tess needs glasses so we got those ordered today. They'll be here in about a week or so. She is actually looking forward to getting them so I am relieved to not have a fight on my hands or many reminders to 'wear your glasses, Tess'.

Our oldest daughter Taylor went to an after-school meeting today about the upcoming rugby season. She is going to play again this year. Last season was my very first introduction to rugby. Whoa, what a tough sport! Some of those girls are out for blood!

There are so many little details that need to be taken care for our son's high school graduation. Gotta order the cap & gown, announcements, name cards, senior pictures, etc... Plans for the graduation party at the end of June are coming together. We've settled on having it here at home with a big tent in the front yard. (Tables & chairs under there, of course DUH :) So many family members have graciously offered to make food and ya know what? I'm taking them all up on it, too! (Hey, I'm no dummy!) I like parties to have themes so we're going to personalize it according to what best represents Tyler. He doesn't really want to go with his school colors so we're not. I'm gonna make centerpieces and already have many decorating ideas. In the coming months I'm planning to shop for supplies, make a few scrapbooks, picture boards - I'd like to do as much prep ahead as I possibly can. This planning is also proving to be quite therapeutic for me in getting my mind off cancer treatment, which is a WONDERFUL thing.

So that's about what's happening around these parts.

Hope you're all enjoying a good week :)

P.S. My nephew Christian is celebrating a birthday today...HAPPY BIRTHDAY, CHRISTIAN!!!! Sorry I'll be late getting something to you...I haven't forgotten you, really! Love ya, bud :)

Family Fun

2009-01-17T22:47:00.003-05:00

My daughter Taylor & I decided to pick up a Skip-Bo card game tonight while we were out doing some shopping. I haven't played in years! We had a lot of fun and shared so many laughs :)

Do you like Skip-Bo or what is *your* favorite card game? My husband & his family all really enjoy playing euchre...um, I don't know how to play, though!

We're continuing to get lots of snow around here and it's very cold. So it's *definitely* fitting to stay indoors and play some games or work on a puzzle. Taylor & I also bought a new puzzle...so far we've got the outline done.

Whatever you're doing, stay warm and enjoy your weekend!

Yeah, I'm Still Around...

2009-01-13T07:30:00.003-05:00

I'm still here - just took a little blogging break...

I had a routine appointment with my oncologist last Monday (a week ago). After some discussion about how severe the side effects of the treatment were, the doctor decided to decrease my weekly dosage by 20% AND I don't have to "make up" any additional treatment weeks (yay!). Last Tuesday was the first decreased dose and boy, let me tell ya - it made ALL the difference in the world! I felt a little bit achy but nowhere near like I had been feeling so I was VERY thankful for that. It's like I have this new attitude now - like 'yes, I CAN get through this...'

The only not-so-great thing that came out of the appointment was that I will have to go have a few x-rays on my spine. I've been having some pain there. My doctor DOES NOT believe the cancer has spread...he said that's very rare while undergoing chemo...so this is just a 'get it checked out to be safe' type of thing.

This morning is another chemo treatment. We got more snow overnight so I've gotta get moving to be on time...my car needs to be cleared off and warmed up...oh, the joys of living of MI...I believe today's HIGH temp won't even be double digits...brrrr!!!!!!!

Have an awesome day!

My Hard-Workin' Boy

2009-01-04T14:25:00.003-05:00

Last night my husband & I took our youngest daughter out to dinner. Tess said she was in the mood for Chinese food so we ended up going to the restaurant where our son works. (They have such a great buffet there...yum!) Tyler was actually at work and last night he was bussing tables. (He does a variety of jobs there.) Bobby, Tess & I were seated in the same dining room where Tyler was working and I must say, it was pretty entertaining to watch him. Tyler's such a hard worker and he interacts very well with people. I was proud to see that :) Boy, he is ever fast, too!

He was clearing a table when we were leaving and I walked over there to say goodbye. Tyler got this goofy smile and said to me, 'Mom, I'm NOT hugging ya right now!' I teased him right back...'Oh, but WHY NOT?!' Nah, I wouldn't really have embarrassed him like that. I just said bye and left :)

The kids go back to school tomorrow. I *think* they're actually looking forward to it!

Tomorrow is also the day I have an appointment to see my oncologist. One of the nurses threw the option out to me at the last chemo treatment to have my dosage slightly decreased because I've been having such severe side effects. It's definitely something to talk about with my doctor, but Bobby & I feel it's better to just get through these next 8 treatments instead of extending it weeks longer. You can't even IMAGINE how badly I want to be DONE with chemo!

Hope everyone enjoys a peaceful Sunday :)

Our Hope Endures...

2009-01-02T23:58:00.002-05:00

I recently heard this song by Natalie Grant and boy, could I ever identify with the lyrics! It's called "Our Hope Endures"...

You would think only so much can go wrong
Calamity only strikes once
And you assume that this one has suffered her share
Life will be kinder from here

Sometimes the sun stays hidden for years
Sometimes the sky rains night after night
When will it clear
But our hope endures the worst of conditions
It's more than our optimism
Let the earth quake
Our hope is unchanged

How do we comprehend peace within pain
Our joy at a good man's wake
Walk a mile with a woman whose body is torn
With illness but she marches on

Sometimes the sun stays hidden for years
Sometimes the sky rains night after night
When will it clear
But our hope endures the worst of conditions
It's more than our optimism
Let the earth quake
Our hope is unchanged

Emanuel, God is with us
El Shaddai, all sufficient
Emanuel, God is with us
El Shaddai, all sufficient
Emanuel, God is with us
El Shaddai, all sufficient

We never walk alone
This is our hope
Our hope endures, the worst of conditions
It's more than our optimism
let the earth quake
let the earth quake
let the earth quake
Our hope is unchanged

I think the words to this song are particularly important to remember....we are never alone - God truly is always with us! I take great comfort in that and you can too.

New Year's Wishes

2008-12-31T09:55:00.003-05:00

I'd like to take an opportunity to wish each and every one of you a Happy New Year filled with much happiness, good health, peace and prosperity! I am praying that "2009" will be the greatest year EVER for all of us!

Personally, I'm looking really forward to getting through the rest of my cancer treatment/surgeries, growing HAIR again, watching our son graduate, celebrating with a grad party - among other things.

Although "2008" probably won't go down in history as being one of the best years we've ever had and I honestly can't wait for it to be through, each trial we go through in life presents an opportunity to make us bitter or better....I've chosen to become better! I don't want to walk around with a bitter attitude, bemoaning all that's happened. Nope, instead I will focus on all I have been blessed with. And that is actually A LOT...it's all about perspective, don't ya think?

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!

More Work...and a Birthday Wish!

2008-12-29T11:10:00.002-05:00

Did everyone enjoy a nice Christmas? We visited with each side of the family and had a good time. (To be honest, I was in pain but it was still nice to see everyone.)

Well, now for the work of taking down all the Christmas decorations and putting everything away...ugh! Have you started? I haven't yet. I didn't put out as much this year. (Shoot, I was just thankful to even get the tree up, given the circumstances!)

How about shopping...anyone been hitting the after-Christmas sales? Not me. I've been sticking close to home.

Today is my sister's birthday...HAPPY BIRTHDAY, LISA! I won't share how old she is but it's older than me! ha ha Hope you have a great day :)

We've had a houseful of kids at any given time during this past week since school got out for break. Our girls have had several friends over so the household has been quite lively...I've been enjoying all the activity :)

Happy Monday to all...enjoy a great week!

A Wish From Me to You!

2008-12-22T21:11:00.004-05:00

Just wanted to wish each and every one of you a very Merry Christmas!

The remaining days before Christmas are going to be busy ones for me. Tomorrow is a CHEMO DAY and I still have several things left to do. I promised myself I WOULD NOT procrastinate but hey, sometimes life just happens that way! I was very sick last week from chemo treatment side effects...all of Friday and most of Saturday went by just like that...and I barely got out of bed. I missed a big Christmas party for my husband's side of the family on Saturday, which was kind of disappointing. Thankfully I felt much better by that evening. I'm learning to be REALLY grateful for the moments I DO feel well these days. I think that's what I'm disliking the very most about this part of the chemo - ya just never know quite HOW you're gonna be feeling. At least with the first 4 treatments, it all seemed to happen like clockwork.

My eyebrows and eyelashes are now going BUH-BYE. It's a funny thing how you just seem to "make peace" with each stage of the journey. Also how you can find a little bit of humor with things in this situation...like how goofy is it that MY HAIR is starting to grow back but now I'm losing the brows & lashes?! So many days I wish I could just stop this ride and get off!

Anyhow, be sure to hug the ones you love a little bit tighter. Take a little more time to reflect on all you have to be grateful for. Most of all, don't take life for granted. Enjoy the Christmas holiday!

Ch...Ch...Ch...Chia!

2008-12-20T22:51:00.003-05:00

Now, if only I could grow some HAIR from a Chia Head, I'd be in business! HA HA HA

To Further Bare My Soul...

2008-12-18T12:10:00.001-05:00

Oh my, ANOTHER brutally honest post from me? Hey, what have I got to lose?!

When I first started blogging, I didn't know what I really wanted from it. To make friends? To share neat decorating ideas, ideas about homemaking, recipes? Yeah, I guess it was all about that.

I knew what I DIDN'T feel comfortable sharing - probably like many of you. WAY too much of my personal life. Specifics about normal family issues - I'd never want to embarrass Bobby or the kids by revealing too much of that type of thing. We are a typical family who faces typical issues but that doesn't mean I've gotta blab it all to everyone.

Then after a few months I got wise to the competitiveness that goes on in blogging. The whole attitude, "look how many readers *I've* got", "look how many comments people leave me" - imagine that being said in a real snappy, middle school girlish tone. (I KNOW that tone - I HAVE a middle schooler!) 'Cause if we're honest here, that IS a commonplace reality in Blogland. I started to question if I should continue blogging - mostly because all of that boastful garbage really bugged me, to tell ya the truth. People trying to be the MOST popular, to have the greatest, cutest blog with the most readers. Basically trying to be "big stuff show-offs". Yuk.

I reached the decision that I WOULD continue. But really only because I wanted to maintain the friendships with so many interesting, kindhearted nice people I'd met. I got to the place where I decided all that other stuff didn't matter to me. When it comes right down to it, who really cares if you get like a HUNDRED comments on one post? Or how many hits in a day? Or how many followers? Those things are nice but tell me, does all of THAT make you popular? And who cares if you're popular in Blogland anyhow? If only a few sincere people who genuinely care leave a positive and encouraging comment, then THAT is what matters - not all that other stuff.

So, that's what was going on with me and my honest thoughts about blogging. Then in the middle of May this past spring my son was involved in a serious car accident and I knew after arriving at the scene how quickly life is but a vapor...by all accounts, Tyler should have died in that car but God spared him. I was busy taking care of Tyler and all the stuff I felt about blogging really, really, really didn't matter anymore. (I'm not trying to be mean or rude but c'mon, in the grand scheme of life, does it really matter that 200 people gush over a window treatment or something you've shown on your blog?! Am I going to feel bad 'cause only a handful of people compliment me on a project I've shared on my blog?!) A couple months passed...then in the middle of July I was diagnosed with breast cancer. LIFE...SURVIVAL became what's the most important of all and I realized how many supportive, wonderful friends I had made through blogging - they reached out and flooded me with cards and gifts and made me feel very loved and cared for. THAT is what it's all about, if you ask me. The friendships you make. Oh, the other stuff is fun - decorating ideas, sharing things we've done in our homes, etc. - but I do wish it wasn't so competitive. Sometimes people can be very cutting and leave comments they shouldn't. I haven't really experienced any of that, thankfully - but I have heard tell of situations where that's been the case. And it's so sad. It shouldn't be like that. I hope you're understanding my meaning here - it's NOT to be down on all these other bloggers. No, I'm simply sharing my observations. I know I'm not too far off the mark; I've discussed this with a few other bloggers and they have noticed this stuff, too.

I suppose all of that has been why I'm sometimes reluctant to share my heart, to put it right out there for all to read. Being vulnerable can be a scary thing and not a comfortable position to be in. But then again, there's a lot to be said for honesty, don't you think?

On another note...By the grace of God, I AM getting through this cancer journey. Day by day, putting one foot in front of the other. Oh, it's not easy. There are good days and bad days but hey, isn't that just life in general? Thanks to all who have reached out to me. You've made my life a lot better and it's one of the big reasons why I continue to blog. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

Side Effects Stink!

2008-12-16T20:48:00.004-05:00

A few of you have asked how I've been feeling so just thought I'd be pretty honest and share my heart a bit.

Don't know why really, but I guess I haven't spoken too deeply on my blog here about my cancer journey. I mean, sure I've referred to it - just in the general context of the appointments and treatments - but not how I feel about it. I suppose it's because I DO NOTwant cancer to define "ME", if that makes any sense. I don't want to constantly talk, talk, talk about it. There is still so much more to me than that stupid word.

Frankly, I've really been struggling with the whole thing. I'm tired of not having hair and now simply having a choice between wearing a wig or a cap. The night before Thanksgiving I had to run out to the grocery store for a forgotten dessert ingredient. I had been in the middle of making the dessert and realized I needed another container of Cool Whip. I just had a cute little beanie cap on and decided to run my errand like that. Well, as soon as I got of my car and walked into the store, people were looking at me real funny. No, it wasn't in my head nor was I being overly self-conscious. I mean, unless you're totally dumb you can tell if someone is staring at you or not. I hurriedly got what I needed, then just got outta there real quick. I got into my car and just burst out crying. I cried for quite a while that night. Bobby & the kids weren't home that evening and I was alone. I cried for how very drastically my whole life has changed within the span of almost 5 months....For how I've gotta deal with all this crap now. Oh, you just don't know how sick I get of it every single day!

I think my way of dealing with it is to try to carry on as normally as I possibly can. I told myself at the beginning I wasn't going to sit around and mope. I was going to try to hold my head up high and deal with it. I was going to MAKE myself get dressed and avoid LOOKING like a sickly cancer patient as much as I could. But ya know what? Life hasn't worked like that. There have been some really BAD days.

The side effects of the chemo have been so awful. This latest drug I've gotta take brought with it unbearably achy joints, tingling hands/feet and watery eyes...my eyes constantly water! The achy joints (imagine like when you have the flu - THAT kind of achy) and tingling happen approximately 2 days after the treatment. The pain began Thursday evening when I was at Tess' band concert. There were so many people there it was standing room only and not one available seat in the whole auditorium. I honestly didn't know HOW I was going to be able to STAND along the wall for over an hour. But really, WHAT was I gonna do...tell someone I need a seat 'cause I'm undergoing cancer treatment? Um no, don't think so! I finally ended up sitting on the floor along the semi-circular stage (not near the performance - no, by the back of the auditorium) and all I could think of when I was sitting with my back slightly on the brick wall was this....I've GOT to make sure this stupid wig doesn't catch on the brick and get pulled OFF MY HEAD!

The watery eyes thing? I'm having trouble being able to wear any eye make-up AT ALL. Now, before you go thinking I'm all vain or something...imagine YOURSELF in that situation if you had dark circles and your skin just looked pasty. Um, I don't really enjoy going around looking like that. I LOOK SICK...who wants to go around looking bad all the time? Know what else? It's painful; my eyes really do hurt.

You may have heard someone with cancer say this..."I just want the OLD ME back!" And every word of it is true. I look at before cancer pictures of me; I think back to how my life was before and I just want to bawl. But I have to say this...I HAVE NOT used cancer as an excuse in my life. I don't lay around in bed or on the couch making everyone feel sorry for me. That is the VERY LAST thing I want - pity. Nope, don't need that. Not today, not tomorrow, not EVER!

But I think I would be very remiss if I didn't share the flip side of how I feel. Oh my goodness, I am acutely aware of HOW BLESSED I truly am. Things really could be sooooo much worse. The cancer could have spread. I could be confined to a bed. I could lose all my independence. (Shoot, I drive myself back & forth to chemo - I'm STILL so independent!) And for all that HASN'T happened, I AM VERY GRATEFUL! So many people have loved me and supported me and been so kind throughout this journey. My heart is full of thankfulness.

So, I take it day by day and - as my mother would always say - don't borrow trouble. Isn't that how we should be living our lives anyhow? Remember, we're not promised tomorrow. We've got to make the most of every single day! I, for one, do not want to live with regrets. This cancer journey has just reinforced what I've always felt anyway...TREASURE THE MOMENT!

Planning Ahead

2008-12-16T07:37:00.002-05:00

Today is a chemo day. Yep, gotta go in for a treatment this morning. I've learned to get as much done as I possibly can on the days I'm feeling great. Take yesterday, for example...it was a very productive day - grocery shopping, worked on Christmas gifts, etc. I'm going to put chicken in the crockpot after I get home from treatment this morning. That way supper will be ready with minimal effort.

How is everyone's week going so far? Are you all done with your Christmas preparations? I'm getting closer to being all finished.

Happy Tuesday to all!

A Little Christmas Scrapbook

2008-12-13T08:55:00.001-05:00

Just thought I'd share with you one of the Christmas gift projects I've recently been working on. This is a small 6x6 scrapbook I made to go along with the other part of the gift for my husband's boss & his wife. (*We already gave them the gifts and they really loved everything :)

I prefer to keep my pages pretty basic and simple looking when I'm making a smaller sized scrapbook. I add more things to the layouts when I'm working on the larger books but I've just found that I personally like a more tailored look for this size.

Thanks for looking!

Another Dessert Recipe

2008-12-12T10:37:00.000-05:00

Just thought I'd share the recipe for the other dessert I made for Bobby's Christmas party at work. It was really delicious and there wasn't a spoonful left in the pan at the end of the evening!

TASTY LAYERED DESSERT

2 cups crushed vanilla wafers
3/4 cup crushed dry roasted peanuts
1/2 cup margarine, melted
1 package (8-oz.) cream cheese, softened
1/2 cup peanut butter
1 cup confectioners' sugar
2 containers (8-oz. each) whipped topping, thawed & divided
3 cups milk
2 packages (3.4 oz. each) instant chocolate pudding
2 milk chocolate candy bars, broken into small pieces
1/2 cup crushed dry roasted peanuts

PREPARATION: In bowl, mix crushed vanilla wafers, crushed peanuts and margarine. Press into bottom of a 9-by-13-inch pan. Chill for 30 minutes.

For second layer: In mixing bowl, blend cream cheese and peanut butter with electric mixer. Add confectioners' sugar; mix. Add 1 container of whipped topping; blend well. Spread mixture over first layer; chill 30 minutes.

For third layer: In mixing bowl, combine milk and chocolate pudding; mix with electric mixer until thickened. Spread over second layer; chill 30 minutes.

For final layer: Spread second container of whipped topping over pudding. Mix peanuts and chocolate candy bar pieces together; sprinkle over topping. Chill for at least 30 minutes, or until ready to serve.

Makes 15 servings.

A Christmas Party and Yummy Cake Recipe

2008-12-11T10:33:00.004-05:00

Last night we went to my husband's Christmas party at work. It was a very nice, family-oriented evening. There was LOTS of delicious food, fun, laughter and music. Santa came to visit and give all the little kids a nice gift. Bobby brought his guitar and led Christmas carols. Our girls helped their dad out with the singing and at one point, they were even up dancing - but I didn't get a picture of it...shoot!

I brought a couple of desserts and thought I'd share one of the recipes with you. I got this recipe for homemade pineapple cake from my mother. I love it because it's SO easy, delicious and the cake turns out very moist...not at all dry. (Sorry I didn't take a picture of this either.)

PINEAPPLE CAKE

2 cups sugar
2 cups flour
1 tsp. baking soda
2 eggs
1 20-oz. can crushed pineapple, undrained

Mix all ingredients together and bake @ 350 degrees for 30-35 minutes. Use frosting flavor of your choice...I like cream cheese frosting :)

That's it! See, told ya it was a simple, easy recipe :)

Latest News...

2008-12-09T22:27:00.002-05:00

I went in for my chemo treatment today and everything went well with it, although it made me SOOOOO tired. I took a 2 hour nap right when I got home. This next stage of treatment is with a different drug called Taxol. I have to take 10 pills before I go into the doctor's office...5 @ 10 PM the night before; another 5 @ 4 AM the day of treatment. Silly me - I didn't read about the side effects until this morning...'may experience difficulty sleeping'. Um yeah, that probably explains why I didn't go to sleep until after midnight; then woke up @ 1:25 AM and never was able to go back to sleep! A dose of Benadryl in the IV is also given with the Taxol. Hence, the 2 hour nap ;)

The kids had a snow day again today; the 2nd one of the school year so far. Taylor & Tess went sledding with some friends. They had quite a bit of fun.

I've been working on several scrapbooks to give as Christmas gifts. Have you been doing any crafts or making handmade gifts?

Hope everyone is having a nice Tuesday!

This 'n That

2008-12-03T11:14:00.002-05:00

We had a really nice time having dinner and visiting with our friends, Ken & Steph. I had to chuckle at how Bobby, Ken & Steph just couldn't believe they've been out of school for 25 years (I'm 3 years younger than they are) and how O-L-D it sounded back then to even imagine attending your 25-year class reunion! (Theirs was held this past summer but we missed it due to Bobby's emergency surgery that day.)

I had to go have my regular bloodwork done yesterday. I was SO happy that my blood cell count was up so I didn't have to have that additional shot! Chemo treatment #5 will be next Tuesday - this stage will be with a different drug other than what I have been getting for the last 2 months. My hair is starting to grow back ever so slightly...just lil tiny pickers sprouting all over - woo hoo!

Have you been decorating for Christmas yet? I've done a little bit so far. For the first time EVER, I have all my Christmas cards made out and ready to mail! Will you be sending out cards this year?

Happy Wednesday to all!

Old Friends

2008-11-29T16:20:00.003-05:00

Tonight my husband & I are going to meet some old friends for dinner. I'm really excited! Let me tell you a little story of our friendship with them...

Bobby has known this couple since all 3 of them were in elementary school and they're in their 40s now! I went to a different school and didn't meet Ken & Stephanie until I started dating Bobby. We used to get together on Friday nights when our kids were little to watch movies and eat pizza. Boy, has the time flown by...Ken & Steph's 3 oldest are in college already!

Our friendship with Ken & Stephanie has always been very comfortable. You know the kind I'm talking about...it doesn't matter how much time has gone by between visits - you just pick up where you left off.

Do you have friends like that? Please share!

Yesterday Ken & Steph celebrated their wedding anniversary so I made them a special card. I'm sure we'll have fun tonight :)

Have a great weekend!

Happy Thanksgiving!

2008-11-26T14:11:00.003-05:00

Wishing each and every one of you a very Happy Thanksgiving! May you enjoy a wonderful day filled with many blessings!

I am thankful for so many things! 2008 has personally been one of the most difficult years I've ever faced in my entire life but I will be celebrating this holiday season with a very grateful heart...hope you all do the same :)